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Thursday, July 02, 2009
Kathryn Lopez :: Townhall.com Columnist
Mrs. Sanford and Sons: Guv's Wife Stands Up for Family
by Kathryn Lopez
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Move over, Sarah Palin? Jenny Sanford, the wife of embattled Republican South Carolina governor Mark Sanford, is attracting her own constituency. The reason behind this is easy to see.

Sanford's husband, who recently admitted to having an extramarital affair, explains that he "crossed lines" multiple times during his marriage, but only really "cheated" on his wife with one woman he shared a "love story" with. And now Mrs. Sanford has become something of a heroine, according to press reports. One friend of the wronged Mrs. Sanford told the Washington Post: "I think Jenny has not had these types of ambitions, but I think every woman in South Carolina would vote for Jenny Sanford for governor right now."

There's been a clear difference between the public statements of Mark and Jenny Sanford: only one seems to be concerned with the question of responsibility. The first lady of South Carolina, upon her husband's confession that he had jetted off to Argentina for the express purpose of a little hanky-panky, looked at duty clearly: she loves her husband and has children to protect. Mark Sanford, on the other hand, put power as his priority.

He, clearly, is a broken man. He's making lame excuses for his infidelity in his marriage, dereliction of duty as governor and misuse of power (trysting with his mistress on the state's dime). Maybe it's all desperation. I don't envy the man whose mistakes are exposed for the world to see. But he's made some choices -- to get married, to father children, to run for governor. And now, instead of The Sanford Family and State of South Carolina Show, it's The Mark Show. All Mark All the Time. Watch the Tragedy Unfold, the Man Who Could Have Been the Great Right Hope. It's as if he's taken lessons from Blago, the ludicrously corrupt and impeached former governor of Illinois turned media monster.

Across the political spectrum, Mrs. Sanford has garnered respect for not appearing at her husband's press conference and for taking the opportunity to reaffirm basic, unimpeachable values. Presumably she knew more about the story than we would that day--as more details would later be revealed -- and had reason not to trust him enough to buy in.

She would later tell reporters camped out at the end of her driveway that "his career is not a concern of mine...He's going to have to worry about that. I'm worried about my family and the character of my children."

You'd think statements like these would make Mrs. Sanford a feminist icon. Alas, she may have the right reproductive organs, but she's lacking the ideology that brands one a real woman in terms of the left's political purposes. She's a Christian Republican, after all. And she's one who embraces her role as wife and mother -- refusing to throw those responsibilities under the bus in the wake of her husband's adultery. Continued...

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Kathryn Jean Lopez, editor of National Review Online, writes a weekly column of conservative political and social commentary for Newspaper Enterprise Association.
 
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Marriage vows
I respect Jenny Sanford for standing by her convictions and being willing to forgive her husband--IF HE REPENTS. She has put the proper and biblical boundaries on this reconciliation. But, with the way he is carrying on, Mark Sanford does not sound repentant at all. Repentance is more than just saying you are sorry. When we repent, we turn away from our sin. We don't mourn over losing it, but rather hate our sin because it displeased God and, in cases such as this, hurt others.

I wouldn't be surprised if we hear in the next few months that they are divorcing. Adultery is one of the two biblical exceptions to the no-divorce rule. Jenny Sanford is under no obligation to stay with an adulterer, especially an unrepentant one. Yes, the marriage vows say "for better or worse," but they also say "forsaking all others." Mark Sanford has broken the covenant that bonded them together. Jenny is being gracious by even giving her husband an opportunity to reconcile.

lilly is right, Jenny Sanford is independently wealthy--her grandmother founded the Skil Corporation in Chicago (they make power tools).

lilly's right
I could have almost believed I was watching a Saturday Night Live spoof of a politician "apologizing" for an affair. This delusional man has decided to dig his way out of a hole he jumped head long into.

Those boys need a good solid example of male accountability. Mom needs to file for divorce NOW. My husband knows that if he ever lost his morals and his mind and had an affair he should not even bother coming home. It will be over immediately.

Some day those boys will be old enough to understand that dad chose the other women over being with them in a real family. Odds are the other woman will be a vague painful memory by then. Relationships that begin in adultery don't usually stand the test of time.

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